I Love you

Most of us have either said this phrase or have heard it. If not from/to someone then i am sure that if u would've seen any of the bollywood flick then you would've come across this phrase. I often wonder whats so magical about this phrase? Why is that the moment one listens to these words, the entire brain stops thinking logically or why is that we become complacent once we hear this? I would like to take a dig at it in this blog.

I have often questioned the functioning of the brain and the act that's responsible for human actions. I believe that most part of our brain is logical and understands things in binary. The remaining part is the emotional part, which manipulates binary to justify the deeds. Which also means that if by some means one can capture the logical part of the brain, the emotional part will automatically gets captured.

Now coming back to what happens when brain listens these three magical words. I am sure with different people have different pitch of sound the harmonic impact can directly be ruled out. However, if we read these words as three different power shots (i cant say gun shots!!) these have just the right impact to make your brain loose the logical sense.

So, when a person says "i love you" i believe that these are the decoded messages that go in the brain...
1) I care for you
2) I want to spend rest of my life with you
3) I see a future with you
4) I want to have a family with you..etc...etc...

Now, i think that out of these if the brain interprets the statement to mean as point no 1 then i am sure it would leave all logical sense behind and would let the body loose. Which is probably why the literates define the situation as "weakening of the knees" in case of a lady.

Having said this, what happens when u switch off your logical sense off? first thing, you present yourself to be taken for a joy "ride". Now if the other fellow is only interested in "ride" then God help you. But if he/she is really interested in taking care of you, then they would do all thats possible in the world to make your life comfortable. Even if that means going to the maximum limit.

For males, i believe when they say that they love someone, it occupies atleast 50% of their memory. The 50% that i talk is of the part of their NON-oFFICE day. Males tend to be more indulgent in work (u can blame creator for that) and then after that the next most important thing is their hobby. If a male says that he loves his girl over the best thing that he wants to do then i am sure he is lying. Also, males believe that if someone has used these words with him, then by its basic understanding that someone would've taken everything that a male does as a part of their life, which i am afraid in not true in most cases.

For females, when they say i love you, they mean it, every single word, every single time. They divide their life into two parts, 1) Their love interest and 2) the rest. Obviously the first part take most of the time.

Which again brings us to a point where it becomes very clear, that despite it looking so logical "I love you" is the most complicated of the statements.I turns your day upside down, it makes you stop thinking, it makes to get dressed up, it makes you take bath(for males!!), it makes you clean your room (coz she might bump in to find your most important covers on the bed!!), it makes you learn a few good english romantic songs, it most definitely makes you a poet, it makes you talk politely, ... the list is endless.

But what i see these days is the most prolific of the statements, its getting converted into a fashion statement. People are using it more for a regular company then having to feel its actual power.

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