What say ya!!!

they say "whatever happens..happens for our own good"

i say

"..God only makes happy endings.. so if it isnt happy then it isnt the end.."

Any connection between these two statements??
______________________________________

ur views!!

Stop-or-i-will-call-the-police

Suppose... in life someone puts you to above question how will u react!! i was put into this situation sometime back when a "special self" told me not to visit her profile on orkut, not to sms her, not to wish her on her birthday...and a lot of "Not tooos"

I wondered what can i do in such a situation? The possibilities: -
1) Ok...do that..- Arrogant self
2) No please dont i beg u...-Sissy self
3) argh!!..even i shall call the police-Angry self
4) hmmm-I dont get bothered by what u said self
5)....

But the important point here is..can u actually stop someone from wishing you on your birthday? or sending u a good morning sms that has nothing but true wish/prayer for your day being good..or the best thing...can u stop someone from visiting your profile on orkut..??

I agree that when u hate someone badly then just at the sight of his/her name gets u out of your mind, but then seldom u can do anything about a few things. Am sure police would also be made to wonder under which law to bring the person.

any views.. for i am petrified horrified by that above statement. for i am way too scared of police... ;-)

Define success!!

Often i wonder, how to define "success"?
Is it 1 st rank in class, but then i wonder if all would have decided to come first in class then am sure it wouldnt be considered of any importance, just coz anyone and everyone could get it. But doesnt that mean the coming second is equally important. If thats so, then coming first is no important and hence cant be termed successful...

Or... passing an exam...now the same holds true in this case as well, for if no body flunked passing wouldnt be important...

Hence i wonder if i ever can associate being a winner with being successful? for according to me a loser is equal to a winner and hence if a winner is successful then a loser also is...but this is a huge contradication to what we follow....

Till now whenever i have heard "He/She is a successful person" it often relates to that person having either of these..1) Money...huge amount.. 2) Good position at work place...3) Achiever by being first amongst all...4) Big name..

But then i wonder..whether a looser can ever be a successful person...if not.. then how am i..
I never came first in class...infact never passed 3 exams in a row...idont have money...and i have lost almost everything that i thought of having... but people still call me successful.. how??