2009-2010

A round up of 2009, I know I am a bit late on this one, but nonetheless

A recap

* what was your biggest achievement of the year?
nothing much except being able to move out of MT with much deliberations and fights

* what was the best thing you bought?
Several, a 29” TV, a double door fridge, a carved TV stand, a beautiful shoe rack, several others

* One word/phrase that you used maximum number of times
I Love you (To nidhi) :-) – this continues to be the same from last year

* what did you get really excited/enthu about?
joining a new upcoming/growing company

* Best day of your life
27th Nov, this is when munnu got married to Ramya

* where did most of your money go?
Travel, purchases of household stuff

* what did you wanted and did not get?
Car, got it in first month of 2010

* what did you wanted and get?
a little peace of mind

* what one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
money- just a little bit more

* what/who kept you sane?
walks

* which political issue stirred you the most?
Women reservation bill

* which social issue stirred you the most?
None

* quote a song lyric that sums up your year.
"I'll survive, I will survive!" by Gloria Gaynor – this continues from last year

* what did you miss?
my friends, my family

* what was your favorite film of this year?
My Name is khan… khan from the epiglotis and I am not a terrorist – what innocense and super acting.

* what was the best book you read?
2 states – trust me, I was rolling all over place while reading it.

* Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
None, actully, I found out this one thing. My hatred for that one person was making me remember him and that was making me loose the peace of mind. So I gave up.. :) and stopped hating him

* what was your biggest failure?
Several, one being, had to quit my fav organisation for not being able to solve the things

* whose behavior made you depressed?
Not worth mentioning here yeah, he doesn’t even deserve a thought. Actually there are two of them, both related to my ex company.

* what did you do in 2009 that you’d never done before?
Whatever little I could do – was able help munnu in getting married :)

* did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
I don't remember what was my resolution in 2009 but definitely will make one and try and live up to it . :)

* what places did you visit?
Goa, Pondicherry

* One thing that you want to do differently in 2009
Become slightly more focussed

* One thing that you wish you could change
Few people in my close Relationships

* One thing that you wish had never happened
Not worth mentioning in here- How I wish, june 2009 was never there in life. I will never forget this one month.

* One thing/event/person that had significant impact on your personality
Event: - Munnu-Ramya’s wedding
Person: - My Dad(his experience helped me every single time i needed it)

This year was difficult again, personl life was being torn apart by near ones, lot of confusion and a lot of frustration from work places saw things go from bad to worse. Learnt how bad can arrogance be and worst is when the person believes that he/she is not arrogant while actually he/she is. But in the end as they say.. In our life too, like our movies, ending is always happy.. and if it is not happy, then it is not the end... picture abhi baaki hai merey dost!!!. Just searching for that happiness quotient in life. Not saying that i am not happy, instead just looking out for more happiness.

Found one great word: - "Determination" and the good that it can do.
Found one great phrase: - "Life is all that you make and God gives"
Found one biggest problem: - Pessimism : - The thoughts of not knowing where to go and what to do.

Six short stories with Morals

Title: - "A dialogue between a child and a mother"

A child told the mother: “Mum you are very beautiful today.”
Replied the mother : “Why?”
The child said : “ Because you did not get angry today .”

Moral of the story:
1. It is easy to possess beauty:- do not get angry.
2. Anger is temporary madness.


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A man attended an interview for a job.
Along the corridor, he picked up a piece and threw it into a dustbin.
The interviewer passed by and saw it.
This man got the job.

Moral of the story:
Live with good habits, and you will be recognised.


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A small boy worked as an apprentice in a bicycle shop.
A man sent a bicycle for repair.
After repairing the bicycle, this boy cleaned up the bicycle and it looked like a new one.
Other apprentices laughed at him for doing redundant work.
The second day after the owner claimed the bicycle back, this boy was pinched and offered a job.

Moral of the story :
1.Go the extra mile to be successful.
2. Doing more gains more & Doing less loses more.


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The owner of a farm asked his child to work everyday at the farm.
His friend said to him : “ You do not have to make your son work so hard. The crops would grow just as good.”
Owner of the farm replied: “ I am not cultivating my crops, but my child.”

Moral of the story:
1. A simple way to groom a child is to let him experience some hardships.
2. If not cut, jade would not turn into useful ware.


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A shop is always brightly lit up.
Someone asked : “What brand of bulb are you using ? It is so lasting.”
The shop owner replied : “Our bulbs blew out frequently. We replaced them once a bulb blew out.”

Moral of the story:
1. It is simple to maintain brightness , change the bulbs regularly.
2. To brightening up everyday life : Endeavour to abandon unwholesome states of mind and make an effort to encourage wholesome states to grow.
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Credits: -
Special mention: -M.Peer Mohamed Sardhar
http://www.citehr.com/149490-six-short-stories-moral.html

Out from self imposed Exile!!

Yes, indeed it was a self imposed exile from blogging; partially due to the pain that was caused by my ex workplace (read it in the previous blog) and partially due to the work load that my new work place came up with.

This is by far the longest time that i have been away from blogging. Though a good break, gave me lot of subjects to write upon. Very soon you would see a series of articles on commercialization of cricket, prediction of winner of IPL3 - the conclusive story, or day as it goes. I am working on drafts of these three write up currently.

But for now, i will sign off by the poem that i wrote on my mummy's birthday: - Title "Maa"

Sochtey hue chala ja raha tha,
ki, Kaun hota hai sabse bada
sabse mahaan, sabse shaktishaali.
Kabhi mann ne kaha ki vishnu,dimag bola, shiv
dil ne kaha ki, swyam bhrahma se bada kaun hai
par kisi tarah shanti na mili
isi mahaul mein main chala ja raha tha
dheemi gati se, gadiyoon ke beech mein se
laga ki ho sakta hai mera sochna hi vrath ho,
ki tabhi dekha maine kuch aisa ki mujhe jawab mil gaya
durr ek bacche ko sambhale ek "Maa" aa rahi thi
Natkhat baccha kabhi kisi cheez ki zid karta
to kabhi kisi baat pe machalta,
maa usse sambhalti, puchkaarti,fatkarti
har thodi der mein bacha chahek uthta.
mujhe mera jawab mil gaya tha
laga ki woh maa hi to hai jo sabse shakti shaali hai
kaun bolta hai ki vishu-brhama hain shrithi ke racheta,
main bolta hun na hoti maa to vishnu swyam na hote,
bhrahmaji ka astitava hi nahin hota,
tabhi aaya woh khayaal jisne sabhi baaton ka nibtara kar diya

"mera jab ansh bhi na tha, tab jisne mujhe upna ansh banaya"
woh maa hi to hai

"mera jab astitva hi nahin tha, tab mujhe jisne astitva diya"
woh maa hi to hai

"jab apne angon ka dhyaan nahin tha, jisne mujhe upna ang banaya"
woh maa hi to hai

barbas hi ankhein nam hogayi aur main natmastak ho gaya.