Interference

I have never hated any word in the entire English vocabulary more then the one mentioned in the title of this blog. This by far is the most "convenient" way of derogating someone's concern about your life.

Let me elaborate, how many people in this world are truly bothered about your well being? or let me ask it in a slightly different way, how many people are there in this "materialistic" world who actually are bothered about your well being? before you jump onto answer, i want another piece of trivia to be added to it, and that is, how many people are actually there who come up to you to correct you?

And i am sure, if people are walking up to you to correct you in one way or the other, it is imperative that they would definitely be high on your advisory list too. Now, what you do when someone of this stature walks upto you? You either listen to them or you do not listen to them.

Till this level things are fine, now let me come to the real stuff that pains me the most. When someone has come to give a piece of advice, rather then listening things up if you jump on and call that person names for interfering in your life, how do you expect that person to ever hold your hand when you are falling. Now this can be true if the person who is giving an advice is a) younger to you with less exp on the topic or b) who is someone of less relevance in life.

Now if both the points are not true and you still call it an interference, will it be correct?

Yes i understand words can be a bit different then they would appear to you, but dont you think that whoever has come to correct you wont bother about wasting time and energy over choosing the right word, rather the person would focus on the message being clearly given.

Its so saddening to see that people with adamancy about they being extremly superior breed often call advice of elders/seniors/contemporaries as interference. I believe they do so coz they have no idea of what they stand to loose.

One thing is for sure, i only come across such people as frustrated, ill-equipped for any job, non-achievers, ardent self destructors and full of un-due anger. Its difficult to correct such people. Its often good to leave such people to God's mercy who in His own sweet way takes care of such people in his own sweet way by frustrating them further with self imposed destruction methodologies.

1 comment:

Unknown said...

oh gosh!!!!!.........ur blog actually changed miiiii view point....i dun get irritated usually bt sumtyms wen am rilli in a bad mood n ppl try 2 oke their nose on d pretext f helping me out..am lykk oh wen vil dese ppl leave!!..i never react bt do gt irritated...bt aftr reading dis my perception hz chngd 4 gud!!