60 days of being married!!

The title gives you a feel that its something that: -
1) Its about marriage and life after it
2) its about MY marriage and MY life after it.. :)

Lets go slightly back in memory, 15 August 2007 was the day when the country was colored in tri-color and celebrating the Independence day, my friend was getting married in bangalore, i had a holiday, Air deccan offered me an extremly cheap air ticket, i was coming to meet few of my friend after a break of 2 years, and a lot of things.....

Admist all this, i met a lady. Most bizzare things was the way i was dressed up, rather i should be saying messed up.. I wore an orange kurta with jeans and sandles. Now, in most parts of the world this dress, by no means, is considered to be formal. Rather it clasifies in no category. The meeting not only went fine, but i suppose for the first time in my entire life i was able to impress someone or rather confuse someone (Nidhi told me this only few days back that she could understand nothing of what i told her!!). Nonetheless....

17th April, i got married to the same lady (as mentioned above!!). Nothing was going right for all the closest people we due in for sufferings. I came over to bangalore to get the house in order, Nidhi joined me after 4 days. Our first night in bangalore was spent on floor of the common hall coz the fan in the room was not working. Second night and the third night also went in the same way. It was then we got the keys for our new house, and we actually got bed to sleep on.

May 5th, was the day when we actually moved in the house and got things in place. Nidhi cooked food for the first time that night, and i remember two of us seated at the dining table trying to feal the house around us.

Rest of the days in that week just flew by and before we could understand it was 10th may. We packed our bags and bumped into the car to head towards a place called Coorg. We were told that its a kind of a good place and that we could enjoy there. To our pleasant suprise, the place was way too good then what we had thought. We indeed had good time there in the cool and peaceful place.

The rest of the days in May went off in getting house in order, from purchasing materials to setting the maid and the newspaper and the milkman and.... there were so many and's that its almost impossible for me to list them down.

Entered June, most definitely without knocking!!... new things were getting listed, from plumbers for the bathroom to the pulses, and flour, and the vegetables... again so many and's.... admist all this... mummy came over to bangalore and we had to leave everything and set house up for her coz this time it was Nidhi's pretige at stake and by all means me and nidhi had to prove that we are good people. :)

When i woke up this morning and rubbed my eyes, i looked at the newspaper and realised....its 60th day of me being married!!! i was quiet loud while i was thinking that i am saying to myself. Time just flew, and i have done so little.... Mom smiled looked at me and said... good that you remember these things... i can see a definite change in you.. i didnt knew how to react...

Most certainly i have done nothing of the sorts that people do after their wedding, i have not gone on honeymoon, i have not spent time with my wife, i have not bought her a thing... all this after being married to the lady i love so much.

Man in me can easily find excuses, and they can be used as a protection when questions are hurled at you from outer world. But how do i answer myself on this, how can i say that i couldnt buy her a small peck admist 60X24 hours!!!!.... this is so much of a time...

I think i need to change a bit... before she starts feeling that she is been married to me for over a year in just 3 months i need to put in some excitement... i said this to myself and just when i was about to sit upright mom told me that munnu has been given a internal promotion... two events in the same day... i think i need to do something about them.. Nidhi and munnu are most certainly two people who mean a lot to me and i need to give them a suprise today... i need to tell them that i am a changed personality and that i know materials are not important but by virtue of being there they create memories. :)

I have decided to go to shopping complex to see what i can buy for two of them... i have to.. i will update this blog based on the stuff that i did tonight... :)

3 comments:

Ila's world, in and out said...

Really sweet of u bhai,to pen down even the minutest details after getting married.And when u speak about not being able to buy a gift for ur loved one,u r following ur Jiju,no formalities yaar,he says :)Besides u both r wonderful gifts to each other,so cheers.I mk waiting for the day when u write about 16 yrs of ur marriage and so on,and by the way,
U do write well.Keep on writing,
Di

Ila's world, in and out said...

Really sweet of u bhai,to pen down even the minutest details after getting married.And when u speak about not being able to buy a gift for ur loved one,u r following ur Jiju,no formalities yaar,he says :)Besides u both r wonderful gifts to each other,so cheers.I mk waiting for the day when u write about 16 yrs of ur marriage and so on,and by the way,
U do write well.Keep on writing,
Di

InSaNĂ© Blogger said...

Bhaiya Shaadi ke 60 din mubarak ho...
YEah yeah you can say same to you too.. :D

Sharmaji.. kahan ho...!!! let me see how i can get in touch with you...cos i know u wont..!! ;)